When there is a conflict in a relationship, our inner negative emotions often become a barrier in our communication with the other person. Something about the other person bothers us, but instead of talking to that person directly, we talk about him or her to everyone else we know. If two people do not mutually discuss their differences, their relationship can quickly get worse. When you put sincere efforts to resolve a conflict, the other person automatically feels your pure intentions. You not only win the relationship, but also win over your ego.