
12- Can Your Words Correct Someone… Without Hurting Them?
BK Shivani
Essence
Have you ever noticed... how easily someone’s words can stay with us?
A mistake may be pointed out... we may be compared with someone else... or repeatedly reminded of what we are not.
And slowly, without realizing it, those words can become our own inner voice.
But what if... there is a subtle difference between helping someone improve and making them feel that something is wrong with them?
Going Beyond invites us to understand a subtle difference— a critic can point out what went wrong in our actions... but criticism makes us feel that we are wrong.
Perhaps that is why some words help us grow... while others leave a wound that stays for years.
The real power may not be in simply telling someone what they need to change...
but in creating an energy where they still feel respected, valued, and capable of becoming better.
Can we correct someone's actions... without making them question their worth?



