Building Beautiful And Blissful Relationships

We souls, in many births, create and sometimes harm relationships also. What we often lose sight of is that relationships can help and harm us too. What are the mistakes we make? As any relationship goes through its own different phases, we keep swaying to and fro with the waves and incorrectly bounce back and forth between joy and sorrow. The joyous moments seem to pass too soon, and dejection from a loved one seems to take a longer time to evaporate. Despite being aware of this negative cycle, we long for true relationships. How do we build beautiful relationships, where we feel positively involved, but not negatively entangled? The key lies in using our emotions creatively to build the right foundation for building a beautiful connection with another soul. Fundamental aspects need to be introspected. Are we doing it for self-fulfillment or because we want to share and express the simple joys of life? 

Relationships can become full of harmony when we practice unconditional acceptance of another soul and its personality in our life and not holding on to and management of the thoughts of another soul. Every colour that the relationship takes can be experienced and cherished in its own way. In this kind of understanding between two souls, differences in opinions don’t look so alarming. By embracing simplicity and detachment and enhancing our own spiritual way of being, bead by bead, stitch by stitch, new and beautiful relationships are woven naturally on their own. Most importantly, a relationship is not always about thinking about someone. Feelings of love, care and respect are about our own self too. When connections in any sphere of life, whether personal or professional, are routed in soul consciousness, it is no more about give and take in return but  about giving without expecting anything in return. If we are able to experience our originality as pure souls full of goodness, relationships become more and more visible as an exchange of positive energy. We understand that it is just one of the aspects of our lives, and that we don’t have to structure our lives around it as we become less attached to the aspect. So much of our inner potential would then find expression in various ways that we have not imagined.