Do Love And Pain Go Hand In Hand (Part 2)?

Each of us is an embodiment of divine love and that love is meant to be shared unconditionally. Life is about sharing it – loving our body, loving oneself, loving others, loving God, loving nature, loving our work…. That energy of love in the end purifies us and helps us transform. But if we connect love with fear or suffering, the flow of pure love gets blocked. We worry, we suffer and we become afraid. In this depleted state of mind, we cannot help either the right way or to the right extent. Our negative vibrations constantly radiate to the person, although physically we might be doing a lot for them. We tend to suffocate or control them and they soon feel dominated. 

If we review our personal life, we are likely to have experienced most pain from loved ones. Such unexplained pain occurs when there is an energy of possession, control, submission and dependence either radiating from us to them or from them to us. Note that none of these four qualify as pure or divine love. We look up to a few people as a blessing in life. They love us, help us, support us and serve us in so many ways that we feel emotionally indebted. But for some reason if we part ways, we blame that our immense love is not letting us overcome the pain of separation. This is not true. Separation whether by death or any other reason is purely a karmic result. Every soul stays with us for a fixed duration of time depending on our karmic account with them. So, we need to continue radiating pure love to each other, with the right understanding. 

(To be continued tomorrow…)