12 March 1988 · English

"Three types of love and the specialities of the children who have love in their hearts."

Today, BapDada is seeing His loving, co-operative and powerful children who are full of all these three specialities because those who are equal in all of these three specialities are number one among the special souls. Be loving, also be co-operative in every task and, along with that, also be powerful. Everyone is loving, but within love, first is love from the heart, second is love at a time when it is convenient; the third is love compelled by time. The speciality of those who are loving with their heart is that they will always easily and naturally experience all relationships and attainments. Let the experience of even one relationship not be lacking. Let there be the experience of different kinds of love according to the time and according to the different relationships. It is necessary to recognise the time and also the relationship appropriate to that time.

When the Father, in the form of the Teacher, is teaching an elevated study, and the relationship of the Teacher is not experienced at that time, because that soul begins to celebrate a meeting and has a conversational chat with Baba as the Friend, then that one’s attention would not be on the study. If, at a time of studying, someone says: I am having a very powerful experience of the stage beyond sound, is that right at the time of studying? Because, at that time, the Father, in the form of the Teacher, has come to enable you to claim an elevated status through this study. At that time when the role is that of the Teacher , the role of a Godly student life is accurate. This is known as recognising the relationship according to the time, and experiencing the attainment of love according to that relationship. Exercise your intellect with this. Let your intellect be stable in whatever form and stage that is needed, whenever it is needed.

When someone has a heavy body or is carrying a burden, he is not easily able to mould his body as he would like. In the same way, if someone has a gross intellect, that is, if there is a wasteful burden or wasteful rubbish of one sort or another on the intellect, if there is one impurity or another, then the person with such an intellect would not be able to mould his intellect whenever he wants. This is why a very clean, deep, that is, an extremely subtle, divine, unlimited and broad intellect is needed. Only those with such intellects will be able to experience all relationships whenever they want and also experience their form according to the relationship. All are loving, but the ones who experience the love of all relationships, according to the time, remain constantly busy in those experiences; they remain merged in love due to the attainment from each relationship. They remain so absorbed that no obstacle of any type could make them bow down to it. This is why they automatically experience the stage of an easy yogi. This is known as a number one accurate, loving soul. Because of love, such souls automatically receive help at the right time from the Father in every task. Because of this reason, they experience constant, immovable, unshakeable and imperishable love. Do you understand? This is the speciality of a number - one loving soul. There is no need to speak of the second or third number because you know them very well. BapDada was seeing such loving children. Has this love been constant from the beginning until now or has it changed according to the time, according to the difficulty, or according to the connection with Brahmin souls? This too makes a difference.

Today, you have heard about love, you will then be told about co-operation being powerful. The importance of a soul with all the three specialities will be taken up at another time. All three are necessary. All of you are such loving souls, are you not? You have this practice , do you not? You are able to stabilise your intellects wherever and whenever you need, are you not? You have controlling power , do you not? This is because ruling power comes when there is first controlling power . How can someone who cannot control himself control the kingdom? This is why the practice of the power of controlling the self is required from now on. Only then can you have a right to a kingdom. Do you understand? Achcha.

Today, the quota of meetings has to be completed. At the confluence age, no matter how much you are tied by the bondage of numbers, can you be tied? Many more than could be accommodated come. This is why Baba has to act according to the time, the numbers and the body that is taken as a support. None of this needs to be considered in the subtle region, because the speed of a subtle body is much faster than that of a physical body. If, on the one hand, there is a corporeal being walking and, on the other, an angelic form, how much difference would there be in their walking? How long would it take an angel to arrive somewhere and how long would it take for a bodily being to arrive there? There is a lot of difference. Brahma Baba too now has a subtle body and is doing service in all four directions at such a fast speed. The same Brahma who had a corporeal body now has a subtle body and is moving forward at a very fast speed and enabling others to move forward. You are experiencing this, are you not?

So, the speed of a subtle body is faster than the fastest instruments of this world. An experience can be given to so many at the same time in a second that they would all say that they saw Baba or met Baba at this particular time. Each one would think that he celebrated a meeting, had a heart-to-heart conversation and received help. Because of the fast speed, everyone can have such an experience at the same time. They will all feel as though they have just had an experience. So the life of an angel is a life free from bondage. Although there is the bondage of service, the speed is so fast, that no matter how much you do, you are constantly free . The greater the love, the greater the detachment. Baba inspires everyone but, whilst inspiring them, because he is a bodiless angel, he has the constant experience of a stage of freedom, because he does not depend on a body or actions. All of you have also experienced that when you perform a task in the angelic stage, you experience being free from bondage, that is, you experience lightness, do you not? Baba is an angel, it is the same land and the same body, and so you can understand what the experience must be, can you not? Achcha.

To the children from all four directions who have love in their hearts, to the children who constantly have a divine, broad and unlimited intellect, to those who constantly experience the angelic stage, equal to Brahma Baba, and who attain success in service and self-progress at a fast speed, to those who are constantly co-operative and who experience the Father’s co-operation as a right, to such special souls who are to become equal to Baba, to the great souls, BapDada's love, remembrance and namaste.

BapDada’s elevated versions spoken in the form of blessings in personal meetings.

1) You are constantly a carefree emperor, are you not? Once you have handed over all responsibility to the Father, what is there for you to worry about? When you take the responsibility on yourself, you have to worry about what will happen and how it will happen, whereas once you hand everything over to the Father, then who should be worrying; you or the Father? The Father is the Ocean, He will have nothing to worry about. So the Father is carefree and the children are also carefree. So, whatever actions you are to perform, before performing those actions, think of yourself as a trustee . A trustee does all the work with a lot of love but doesn’t have any burden. A trustee means that everything belongs to the Father. So, there is greater attainment when you say, “Yours”, and you also remain light. All the work will be done well because as is your awareness, so will be your stage. “Yours” means to have the awareness of the Father. This is not just an ordinary great soul (mahaan atma), but the Father Himself. So, when you have said, “Yours” to the Father, the work will turn out well and your stage will always be carefree. Even though the Father is offering you to give Him the worries, you still don’t accept the offer. What can be said? The Father’s offer is: Let go of the burden. Therefore, be constantly carefree and from your own experience, show others the way to be carefree. You will receive many blessings. When you take away someone’s burden or worries, he will give you blessings from his heart. So, you yourself are a carefree emperor and you will also receive blessings filled with good wishes from others. So, you are an emperor. You are an emperor of imperishable wealth. What would an emperor be concerned about? Perishable emperors have concerns, but this is imperishable . Achcha.

2) You have the experience of both imperishable happiness and temporary happiness, do you not? Temporary happiness is the happiness you receive from physical things, whereas imperishable happiness is Godly happiness. So, which is the best happiness of all? Once you have found Godly happiness, perishable happiness automatically follows. For instance, when someone is walking under the sun, his shadow follows him, whereas those who chase after a shadow don’t receive anything. So, those who go towards Godly happiness automatically have temporary happiness following them like a shadow. They don’t have to labour. For instance, it is said: When anything is done in the name of God, all interactions are successful. In the same way, Godly happiness is something “in the name of God” (parmarth) and perishable happiness is that of “worldly interactions” (vehwar). In God’s name, worldly relationships (interaction) work out automatically. So, constantly stay in this experience through which you can receive both. Otherwise, you would only receive from one side, and that would also be perishable. Sometimes you would receive it and sometimes you would not, because the thing itself is perishable. What would you receive through that? When you receive Godly happiness, you become constantly happy; there is no name or trace of sorrow. To find Godly happiness means you have found everything. There is nothing unattained. Those who have imperishable happiness will use the perishable things while being detached from them; they would not get trapped in them. Achcha.