
Value Yourself – People Will Value You
Discover how valuing yourself and understanding the deeper motives behind actions can transform your interactions and boost your self-respect.
Have you ever pondered the age-old question, “Does God get angry and punish us?” This question, deeply ingrained in our belief systems since childhood, compels us to examine the nature of the divine and its role in our lives. The belief that everything in our life happens according to God’s will is almost universal. But have you ever paused to think about the implications of this belief, especially when faced with life’s harsh realities?
From the tender leaves swaying in the breeze to the monumental events that shape our lives, we’re taught to attribute everything to God’s will. However, when tragedy strikes, like the untimely death of a young child, attributing it to God’s will can be both confusing and distressing. What does this say about the nature of God, and how does this belief impact our perception of divine justice?
Our upbringing often presents us with two contradictory beliefs: that everything is predestined by God and that our destiny is shaped by our actions. How can both be true? If everything is indeed directed by God, where does our responsibility lie? And if our actions dictate our destiny, what role does God play in our lives?
Consider the love of a parent. No parent, given a choice, would script a destiny of pain or suffering for their child. They would want nothing less than perfection. If we, as flawed beings, desire the best for our children, how then can we reconcile the idea of a benevolent God writing destinies filled with pain and suffering?
The notion that our destiny is a consequence of our karma offers a different perspective. It suggests that while most of our actions are positive, our mistakes inevitably lead to some unpleasant experiences. This belief underscores the diversity in our destinies, influenced by our unique actions.
We stand at a crossroads between these two belief systems. Embracing the idea that our actions shape our destiny empowers us to take responsibility for our lives. It shifts the focus from blaming God for our misfortunes to understanding our role in shaping our experiences.
In this framework, God’s role resembles that of a parent – offering wisdom, love, and strength but not interfering with the consequences of our actions. It’s our responsibility to face the results of our deeds, while drawing on divine support for knowledge and strength.
(Turn on above audio and start practicing meditation)
Gently focus on the space between your eyebrows, envisioning yourself as a point of light. This light represents your true self, a soul connected to the Divine. As you sit here, let the light grow brighter, symbolizing the awakening of your inner wisdom.
Now, reflect on the belief that everything happens according to God’s will. As you do this, visualize God not as a force that dictates every aspect of life, but as a loving parent, an eternal source of wisdom and strength. Imagine God’s presence in your life as guiding, nurturing, but never controlling or punishing.
As you breathe in, absorb this understanding, and as you breathe out, release any misconceptions or fears about a punitive God. Understand that God, like any parent, wishes only for your happiness and well-being, and does not write pain or suffering into your destiny.
Now, focus on the concept of karma – the idea that your actions shape your destiny. With each breath in, feel empowered by the knowledge that your choices and actions are significant. With each breath out, let go of the feeling of being a passive recipient of fate.
Remember, you are not helpless. You have the power to shape your destiny through your actions, thoughts, and intentions. As you continue to breathe, visualize yourself making choices that align with positivity, love, and wisdom.
Now, gently bring your focus back to the point of light between your eyebrows. Realize that God is with you, not to dictate your path, but to provide wisdom and strength. You have the freedom and responsibility to shape your destiny.
As you conclude this meditation, carry this understanding with you. In your daily life, whether at work or with family, remember this empowering belief system. Every action you take is a step towards the destiny you are creating, guided by divine love and wisdom.

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